its when you have a lot of things in mind and would want to express it but you dont know how to, its like yod just want to keep it to yourself to your head but your effin mind is going to blow up!
Saturday, 30 May 2009
Saturday, 23 May 2009
lucky kid!
TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE
1950's, 60' s, 70's and early 80's !!First, some of us s urvived being born to mothers who did not have an OB-Gyne and drank San Miguel Beer while they carried us.
While pregnant, they took cold or cough medicine, a te isaw, and didn't worry about diabetes.
Then after all that trauma, our baby cribs were made of hard wood covered with lead-based paints, pati na yung walker natin, matigas na kahoy din at wala pang gulong.
We had no soft cushy cribs that play music, no disposable diapers (lampin lang), and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, no kneepads , sometimes wala pang preno yung bisikleta.
As children, we would ride in hot un-airconditioned buses with wooden seats (yung JD bus na pula), or cars with no airconditioning & no seat belts (ngayon lahat may aircon na)
Riding on the back of a carabao on a breezy summer day was considered a treat. (ngayon hindi na nakakakita ng kalabaw ang mga bata)
We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle purchased from 711 ( minsan straight from the faucet or poso)
We shared one soft drink bottle with four of our friends, and NO ONE actually died from this. Or contacted hepatitis.
We ate rice with star margarine, drank raw eggs straight from the shell, and drank sofdrinks with real sugar in it (hindi diet coke), but we weren't sick or overweight kasi nga......
WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, and get back when the streetlights came on. Sarap mag patintero, tumbang preso , habulan at taguan.
No one was able to reach us all day ( di uso ang cellphone , walang beepers ) . And yes, we were O.K.
We would spend hours building our wooden trolleys (yung bearing ang gulong) or plywood slides out of scraps and then ride down the street , only to find out we forgot the brakes! After hitting the sidewalk or falling into a canal (seweage channel) a few times, we learned to solve the problem ourselves with our bare & dirty hands .
We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 100 channels on cable, no DVD movies, no surround stereo, no IPOD's, no cell phones, no computers, no Internet, no chat rooms, and no Friendsters. ...... ...WE HAD REAL FRIENDS and we went outside to actually talk and play with them! We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no stupid lawsuits from these accidents. The only rubbing we get is from our friends with the words..masakit ba ? pero pag galit yung kalaro mo,,,,ang sasabihin sa iyo..beh buti nga ! We played marbles (jolens) in the dirt , washed our hands just a little and ate dirty ice cream & fish balls. we were not afraid of getting germs in our stomachs. We had to live with homemade guns " gawa sa kahoy, tinali ng rubberband , sumpit , tirador at kung ano ano pa na puedeng makasakitan. .pero masaya pa rin ang lahat. We made up games with sticks ( syatong ), and cans ( tumbang preso )and although we were told they were dangerous, wala naman tayong binulag o napatay.paminsan minsan may nabubukulan lang. We walked, rode bikes, or took tricycles to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them to jump out the window! Mini basketball teams had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't pass had to learn to deal with the disappointment. Wala yang mga childhood depression at damaged self esteem ek-ek na yan. Ang pikon, talo. Ang magulang ay nandoon lang para tignan kung ayos lang ang mga bata, hindi para makialam at makipag-away sa ibang parents. That generation of ours has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers, creative thinkers and successful professionals ever! They are the CEO's, Engineers, Doctors and Military Generals of today. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had failure, success, and responsibility. We learned from our mistakes the hard way. You might want to share this with others who've had the luck to grow up as real kids. We were lucky indeed. And if you like, forward it to your kids too, so they will know how brave their parents were. It kind of makes you wanna go out and climb a tree, doesn't it?!
1950's, 60' s, 70's and early 80's !!First, some of us s urvived being born to mothers who did not have an OB-Gyne and drank San Miguel Beer while they carried us.
While pregnant, they took cold or cough medicine, a te isaw, and didn't worry about diabetes.
Then after all that trauma, our baby cribs were made of hard wood covered with lead-based paints, pati na yung walker natin, matigas na kahoy din at wala pang gulong.
We had no soft cushy cribs that play music, no disposable diapers (lampin lang), and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, no kneepads , sometimes wala pang preno yung bisikleta.
As children, we would ride in hot un-airconditioned buses with wooden seats (yung JD bus na pula), or cars with no airconditioning & no seat belts (ngayon lahat may aircon na)
Riding on the back of a carabao on a breezy summer day was considered a treat. (ngayon hindi na nakakakita ng kalabaw ang mga bata)
We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle purchased from 711 ( minsan straight from the faucet or poso)
We shared one soft drink bottle with four of our friends, and NO ONE actually died from this. Or contacted hepatitis.
We ate rice with star margarine, drank raw eggs straight from the shell, and drank sofdrinks with real sugar in it (hindi diet coke), but we weren't sick or overweight kasi nga......
WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, and get back when the streetlights came on. Sarap mag patintero, tumbang preso , habulan at taguan.
No one was able to reach us all day ( di uso ang cellphone , walang beepers ) . And yes, we were O.K.
We would spend hours building our wooden trolleys (yung bearing ang gulong) or plywood slides out of scraps and then ride down the street , only to find out we forgot the brakes! After hitting the sidewalk or falling into a canal (seweage channel) a few times, we learned to solve the problem ourselves with our bare & dirty hands .
We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 100 channels on cable, no DVD movies, no surround stereo, no IPOD's, no cell phones, no computers, no Internet, no chat rooms, and no Friendsters. ...... ...WE HAD REAL FRIENDS and we went outside to actually talk and play with them! We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no stupid lawsuits from these accidents. The only rubbing we get is from our friends with the words..masakit ba ? pero pag galit yung kalaro mo,,,,ang sasabihin sa iyo..beh buti nga ! We played marbles (jolens) in the dirt , washed our hands just a little and ate dirty ice cream & fish balls. we were not afraid of getting germs in our stomachs. We had to live with homemade guns " gawa sa kahoy, tinali ng rubberband , sumpit , tirador at kung ano ano pa na puedeng makasakitan. .pero masaya pa rin ang lahat. We made up games with sticks ( syatong ), and cans ( tumbang preso )and although we were told they were dangerous, wala naman tayong binulag o napatay.paminsan minsan may nabubukulan lang. We walked, rode bikes, or took tricycles to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them to jump out the window! Mini basketball teams had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't pass had to learn to deal with the disappointment. Wala yang mga childhood depression at damaged self esteem ek-ek na yan. Ang pikon, talo. Ang magulang ay nandoon lang para tignan kung ayos lang ang mga bata, hindi para makialam at makipag-away sa ibang parents. That generation of ours has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers, creative thinkers and successful professionals ever! They are the CEO's, Engineers, Doctors and Military Generals of today. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had failure, success, and responsibility. We learned from our mistakes the hard way. You might want to share this with others who've had the luck to grow up as real kids. We were lucky indeed. And if you like, forward it to your kids too, so they will know how brave their parents were. It kind of makes you wanna go out and climb a tree, doesn't it?!
--source: forwarded electronic mail
Friday, 22 May 2009
pitong buwan aking natutunan
matutunang makipagusap sa taong hindi mo alam kung maiintindahan ka
magmura ng pagkalutong lutong sa sobrang kabwisitan
makalimutan ang nakaraan
magimbento ng kung anu anung ulam
magayos, maginternet, magluto sabay sabay
magbilang sa ibang lenggwahe
natuto ng kaunting ibang lenggwahe
magpigil ng paghinga sa loob ng limang minuto dahil ikamamatay ko kung hinde
magpigil ng antok sa loob ng sampung oras dahil uuwi ako ng pinas kung hinde
madali magkaroon ng bagong kakilala pero hindi bagong kaibigan
natutunan kong maiksi pala talaga ang aking pasensiya
sa bansang ito talagang iiksi ang pasensiya mo
matutong kumain magisa
maggrocery magisa
tumunganga sa bahay magisa..kulang na lang kausapin ang sarili na magisa
kaya ko pala mgpasaya ng iba kahit nalulungkot ako
magtipid dahil matapos ang isang araw na sweldo, isang buwan na naman akong walang pera
magsinungaling
makipagplastikan sa mga kupal na kasamahan--na ayokong ayoko gawin
kapwa mo kabayan aabusuhin ka
sukdulan ang inggitan
matulog sa umaga magising sa gabi
huwag kumain ng isang buong araw dahil walang oras at panahon
ang pinakamahirap ang malayo sa sariling bahay at pamilya
Tuesday, 19 May 2009
di lang totoo, tunay pa.
mahirap maghanap ng tunay na kaibigan, marami diyan akala mo kaibigan mo yun pala ang totoo nagpapanggap lang..maswerte na siguro ko na kahit iilan at kahit paano nakahanap ako ng mga totoong tao para maging tunay na kaibigan, laking pasasalamat ko..
matatawag mong kaibigan ang isang tao kung handa ka sabihin lahat ng sikreto mo at buo ang pagtitiwala mo sa kanya na hindi ka niya bibiguin sa pagtago niya ng mga sikreto mo,
sila din yung mga taong kahit anu pa mangyari andiyan pa din sila para sayo, hindi ka nila bibigyan ng payo, pero sasabihin nila sayo ang dapat mong gawin at kung ano ang nakikita nilang totoong nangyayari, masaktan ka man sa sinabi nila, alam niya na matatauhan ka din, hindi mo na siya kailangang tanungin kung pwede mo ba siya kausapin dahil lagi siyang may oras para sayo, pag may problema ka kahit nasa gitna ng date yan iiwan niya yan para sayo, humanda ka nga lang dahil sesermunan ka muna niya tungkol sa date niya bago ka tanungin kung ano ba nangyare sayo, pag nagbihis ka at nakita niyang hindi bagay, sasabhin niya sayong "hindi bagay ok!" "iba na lng suotin mo"..di tulad ng iba sasabihin sayo "hmm...ok lang". murahin ka man niyan alam mo at mararamdaman mong may pagmamahal ang bawat salita niya at panenermon sayo, itututring ka niyang kapatid at hindi siya papayag basta basta kung saan ka na lang pulutin sa mundo, kung nagmumuka ka ng tanga hindi sasabihin na "muka kang tang", sasabihin niya sayo "ang tanga mo, tumugil ka na",pag may problema ka hahayaan ka niya dumaldal ng dumaldal hanggang magsawa ka at pag tapos ka na ihanda mo dapat ang tenga mo..
ang tunay na kaibigan hindi natatakot magpakatotoo sayo at sabihn kung dapat mo ng ituwdi utak mo dahil paliko-liko ka na, parte sila ng buhay, isa sa pinakaimportantent karakter sa buhay natin, kung wala sila sino na lang magsesermon sayo kung mukha ka na palang tanga sa ginagawa mo..kaya pahalagahan ang bawat tunay na kaibigang meron ka..minsan lang yan, wag pabayaan.
matatawag mong kaibigan ang isang tao kung handa ka sabihin lahat ng sikreto mo at buo ang pagtitiwala mo sa kanya na hindi ka niya bibiguin sa pagtago niya ng mga sikreto mo,
sila din yung mga taong kahit anu pa mangyari andiyan pa din sila para sayo, hindi ka nila bibigyan ng payo, pero sasabihin nila sayo ang dapat mong gawin at kung ano ang nakikita nilang totoong nangyayari, masaktan ka man sa sinabi nila, alam niya na matatauhan ka din, hindi mo na siya kailangang tanungin kung pwede mo ba siya kausapin dahil lagi siyang may oras para sayo, pag may problema ka kahit nasa gitna ng date yan iiwan niya yan para sayo, humanda ka nga lang dahil sesermunan ka muna niya tungkol sa date niya bago ka tanungin kung ano ba nangyare sayo, pag nagbihis ka at nakita niyang hindi bagay, sasabhin niya sayong "hindi bagay ok!" "iba na lng suotin mo"..di tulad ng iba sasabihin sayo "hmm...ok lang". murahin ka man niyan alam mo at mararamdaman mong may pagmamahal ang bawat salita niya at panenermon sayo, itututring ka niyang kapatid at hindi siya papayag basta basta kung saan ka na lang pulutin sa mundo, kung nagmumuka ka ng tanga hindi sasabihin na "muka kang tang", sasabihin niya sayo "ang tanga mo, tumugil ka na",pag may problema ka hahayaan ka niya dumaldal ng dumaldal hanggang magsawa ka at pag tapos ka na ihanda mo dapat ang tenga mo..
ang tunay na kaibigan hindi natatakot magpakatotoo sayo at sabihn kung dapat mo ng ituwdi utak mo dahil paliko-liko ka na, parte sila ng buhay, isa sa pinakaimportantent karakter sa buhay natin, kung wala sila sino na lang magsesermon sayo kung mukha ka na palang tanga sa ginagawa mo..kaya pahalagahan ang bawat tunay na kaibigang meron ka..minsan lang yan, wag pabayaan.
Sunday, 17 May 2009
relak
isa sa pinakamasarap kakwentuhan ay yung mga may edad na, mga sanay na sa buhay, sila yung pag nagkwento o nagsalita at nagbigay payo para kang batang manlalaki mata, elibs ka agad, isa sa pinakamagandang payong natutunan ko sa kanila,
"ineng relak lang wag ka magmadali, lahat ng gusto mo makukuha mo sa tamang oras, kundi man baka mas maganda pa sa gusto mo ang ibigay sayo.."
mapapaisip ka bakit ka nga ba magmamadali sa buhay na makuha lahat ng gusto mo, mamadalain mo ang araw ng hindi mo na napapansin ang mga nangyayari sayo sa mga oras nato, tipong nabalewala na yung isang buong araw dahil masyado mong hinihigit yung oras makarating ka lang sa bagay na gusto mo nang mangyari, hindi mo naisip, minsan lang mabuhay, isang pagkakataon lang ito, namnamin mo na, kung kanina maganda ang sikat ng araw at hindi mo napansin baka bukas maulan na..wala ka dapat madaliin dahil ang bawat araw dapat ikasiya mo, hindi mo masasabi kung mamaya sa pagtulog mo eh hindi ka na pala makakabangon ulit, masama man isipin pero hindi natin alam, namnamin ang bawat pagkakataon at bigyang importansiya ang bawat araw at pangyayari sa buhay, walang dahilan para magmadali, lahat may tamang panahon, bakit ka ba magmamadali sigurado naman na hindi ka pa handang makarating sa tunay na katapusan.
Friday, 15 May 2009
stat
status messages that i would like to put on my status on yahoo messenger all at the same time..
*i f only i could*PART1
my link on http://www.plurk.com/moonlightlady#
my link on this site
"suplado"
"kung dalawa mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa dahil hindi ka naman hahanap ng iba kung talagang mahal mo yung una"
"wala sa ginagawa natin ang makapagsasabi ng sapat kung sino tayo dahil lagi tayong higit sa kaya at hindi natin kaya gawin"
"parang elevator lang yan, bakit mo ipagsisiksikan ang sarili mo kung alam mong puno na, may hagdan naman ayaw mo lang pansinin"
"youre like my personal brand of heroine"
"i dont have the enough strenght to stay away from you"
"all i want is your love"
"pls define: OK LANG"
" i miss you dearly"
"bakit ako na lang lagi"
"what an effin life..still love it anyway"
"im not a good starter of conversation, especially if im not interested which means youll now know why i talk to you.."
"dont believe your mind telling you that im a snob..im not..im just shy..^_* "
"..the hopeless romantic is nothing but hopeless.. "
Tuesday, 12 May 2009
NAIA and DIA
NAIA: aerobridges DIA:stairs and cobus
NAIA:everybody leaves their hometown DIA: everybody goes to their hometown
NAIA: immigration somehow knows the use of visa DIA: is contented with checking the exit permit
NAIA: easy to restart conveyor belts DIA: goodluck with restarting
NAIA: i love people here DIA: i love SOME of the people here
NAIA: home of customer service DIA: home of civil transactions
NAIA: sleepy before duty DIA: sleepy all time during duty
NAIA: security checks your passes by themselves DIA: you go to security so the they can check your pass
NAIA: WOW resto good true food DIA: STERLING..be contented with the fries
NAIA: announcers are chosen DIA: whoever
NAIA: rules are rules DIA: if the powered says go..GOW!
NAIA: passengers only DIA: the whole town is in
NAIA: no passport no ticket no entry DIA: GOW!
NAIA: right parking space DIA: park anywhere anytime
NAIA: everybody is knowledgeable DIA: well until they can cope up.
ok enough of that NAIA isnt perfect too i know..im bias i know..there are also a lot of good things at DIA..but what can i say..NO PLACE LIKE HOME
Friday, 8 May 2009
call it a boring life...boring life...
gising.ligo.ayos
luto.kain.ayos
pasok.trabaho.uwi
kain.tulog.
balik sa "gising"
yan ang ginagawa ko sa araw araw..o sige lagyan mo ng pagiinternet sa pagitan ng lahat ng yan..
pero eto mga highlight araw-araw sa trabaho:
walo hanggang sampung oras kang dadal sa harap ng tao ng walang pahinga at kainan dahil mahaba ang pila..
aawayin ka ng pasahero dahil hindi daw maganda ang serbisyo mo dahil hindi mo siya mabigyan ng upuan sa tabi ng bintana, kung gusto niya ilagay ko siya sa labas ng bintana..
hirap na hirap kang magpapaliwanag sa taon hindi mo alam kung naiintindihan ka niya dahil titig lang ang gagawin niya sayo..
susuhulan ka ng kung magkano ang hindi niya alam gusto mo na lang siya bigyan ng doble ng suhol niya wag mo lang makita pagmumuka niya..
hindi ka na makahinga sa baho ng tao sa harap mo..
aawayin ka ng kabayan mo at sasabihin sayong maigi pang matanggal ka na din sa trabho dahil hindi mo siya matulungan, maigi pa ang hindi niya kalahi..
magbubuhat ka ng bagahe na marerealize mong mabigat pala nung naibaba mo na..
makikiusap ka sa pasahero habang nakikiusap din siya sayo, parang hostage situation, tingnan niyo kung sino unang bibigay..
mabibwisit ka sa minsang katangahan mo at katangahan ng kasamahn mo
ang pinakapaborito kong highlight pagpatak ng 12.00am
LIVE.love.LAUGH
be thankful that you still woke up today, for this day is another chance given to you by GOD, to enjoy his wonderful creations.
LIVE. live to the fullest, it doesnt mean you have to party all night. do what you do best and improve on those flaws, youll never know when will be your last.
LOVE. love everyday and everybody, forgive your enemies and forget those pains. love is a wonderful gift, let go of the past, hug the present and welcome the wonderful future.
LAUGH. smile at everybody, chit-chat with your friends and giggle those jokes out, spending time with your family and friends or even meeting new ones will be so much fun. remember laughter is the best medicine.
every frown you make is a minute put to waste..
i am therefore thankful for this day and so as you should be..
LIVE. live to the fullest, it doesnt mean you have to party all night. do what you do best and improve on those flaws, youll never know when will be your last.
LOVE. love everyday and everybody, forgive your enemies and forget those pains. love is a wonderful gift, let go of the past, hug the present and welcome the wonderful future.
LAUGH. smile at everybody, chit-chat with your friends and giggle those jokes out, spending time with your family and friends or even meeting new ones will be so much fun. remember laughter is the best medicine.
every frown you make is a minute put to waste..
i am therefore thankful for this day and so as you should be..
Wednesday, 6 May 2009
late.reaction.syndrome.
bakit hindi mo ko pinigilan?...tumatakbo sa isip: "wala na ata akong pakialam"
iba talaga ang magic ng distansiya at trabaho, makakalimot ka sa lahat ng bagay dahil marami kang gingawa, wala ka nang pakialam, kaya sige go lang ng go..ang mahirap pag dinalaw ka ng late reaction syndrome..
eto yung pakiramdam na may gusto ka pa palang gawin, na dapat ito pala ang ginawa mo, dito mo magagamit ang salitang nasa huli pala ang pagsisisi, pero wala na late reaction nga eh, matapos ang ilang buwan ngayon mo lang mararamdaman na tanga ka pala..
ang masama pa diyan ngayon mo pa naramdaman na sumuko na rin siya para sayo, wala ka ng pagasa dahil nung panahong binitiwan ka niya at hinayaan mo siyang malaglag ay may nakasalo pala sa kanya...
magdusa ka na lang diyan sa panghihinayang dahil talagang nasa huli ang pagsisi, anu pa ba ang kaya mong gawin..
iba talaga ang magic ng distansiya at trabaho, makakalimot ka sa lahat ng bagay dahil marami kang gingawa, wala ka nang pakialam, kaya sige go lang ng go..ang mahirap pag dinalaw ka ng late reaction syndrome..
eto yung pakiramdam na may gusto ka pa palang gawin, na dapat ito pala ang ginawa mo, dito mo magagamit ang salitang nasa huli pala ang pagsisisi, pero wala na late reaction nga eh, matapos ang ilang buwan ngayon mo lang mararamdaman na tanga ka pala..
ang masama pa diyan ngayon mo pa naramdaman na sumuko na rin siya para sayo, wala ka ng pagasa dahil nung panahong binitiwan ka niya at hinayaan mo siyang malaglag ay may nakasalo pala sa kanya...
magdusa ka na lang diyan sa panghihinayang dahil talagang nasa huli ang pagsisi, anu pa ba ang kaya mong gawin..
Tuesday, 5 May 2009
masarap bang mag two-time?
**this i got from FS b.board, this is how i actually think as of this moment**
masarap mag two time dba ?..yung tipong dala- dalawa sila... tatlo-tatlo.. minsan sampu- sampu pa nga e dba?!pero minsan naiisip ba ntin kung ano epekto nito sa mga nasasaktan ntin??masarap magtwo time...pag natapos ka sa isa..lilipat ka naman sa isa..tpos sa iba nman hanggang sa mag-sawa ka, tpos iiwanan mo lng..kase may nkita kang mas gwapo o mas mas maganda sa knya...minsan pag nag away kau ng number one mo damay-damay pati yung 2nd..3rd..and so forth..kawawa nmn sila noh?samantalang wala nmn silang gngwa sau kung di ang intindihin ka at mahalin lang...
bakit nga kya masarap mag two time???
kse hindi ka marunong makuntento sa kung anong meron ang gf/bf mo?
kase meron mas better sa present mo...?
kase SELFISH ka! ayaw mong ilet-go yung present mo.
its for your own sake khit nasasaktan mo na siya?kase ano?
ano? kase sarili mo lang ang iniisip mo...
pano kung gawin sau yun?
sa tingin mo makakaya mo?
sa tingin mo okey lang sau?
ano?.....ano?
dba masakit din? tsaka mo malalaman na mahal
mo pala tlga siya pag may mahal na syang
iba..pag hindi na ikaw ang mahal nya...tsk..tsk..tsk..
bakit nga kya masarap mag two time???
kse hindi ka marunong makuntento sa kung anong meron ang gf/bf mo?
kase meron mas better sa present mo...?
kase SELFISH ka! ayaw mong ilet-go yung present mo.
its for your own sake khit nasasaktan mo na siya?kase ano?
ano? kase sarili mo lang ang iniisip mo...
pano kung gawin sau yun?
sa tingin mo makakaya mo?
sa tingin mo okey lang sau?
ano?.....ano?
dba masakit din? tsaka mo malalaman na mahal
mo pala tlga siya pag may mahal na syang
iba..pag hindi na ikaw ang mahal nya...tsk..tsk..tsk..
PeePz...masarap magmahal at mahalin..sana lang ..
MARUNONG TAYONG MAKUNTENTO SA IBINIGAY SATIN...
TAYO-TAYO NA NGA LANG ANG NAG KAKAINTINDIHAN..
TPOS TAYO-TAYO PA ANG NAGTATALUHAN!!!!
HEY PEOPLE WAKE UP!!!!!
MAHALIN NYO MGA GF/BF NYO!!!!!!BE LOYAL!!!
soweee sa mga natamaan ko po....=(
ginigicing ko lng kayo sa matagal nyong
pagkakatulog....bka ksi pag gising nyo WALA NA
YUNG TAONG NAGMAMAHAL SA INYO NG TOTOO...
from my cuz: moonbabefairy
Monday, 4 May 2009
almost.but.not.quite
got this from email..so true..
Parang Kayo, Pero Hindi. She is a 24-year old copywriter. He is an architect. They met and became lovers in college. They broke up last year but remained to be "friends." They send sweet text messages and he calls her often to make sure she's okay. They still date. They still have sex. They don't see anyone else. It is obvious that they still love each other but when asked about their situation, she doesn't know the real score. Even her friends are in the dark. "Parang sila, pero hindi."
She works in a telecom. He is reviewing for the board. They are in the same barkada. They talk on the phone till 4 am. He gives her chocolates, flowers and CDs even when there is no occasion. Their friends are suspecting something. Bakit sila nagsosolo kapag may overnight inuman? Why does he hold her close on the dance floor? Bakit sila magkaholding hands lagi? Sila kaya? "He hasn't admitted anything," she rants. "But I let him hug and kiss me. Parang kami, pero hindi."
They work together in an ad agency. After office, they would watch movie, have dinner and stroll at Glorietta. She gave him Harry Potter books for his birthday in exchange for posing as her boyfriend to make an ex jealous. They made out during the company outing in Subic and never talked about it. He said "I love you" once but she wasn't sure if she heard him correctly because they were both drunk then. But one thing she is sure of is her feelings for him. She likes him. And she's assuming that with what he's doing to her and with her, he likes her, too. There's just one hitch: he has a girlfriend!
She is a 28-year-old virgin. He's a 35-year-old bachelor. Both mountaineers, they became close during their climbs. After a few dates in posh restaurants, he brings her to his condo where they would make out. They have been doing this for months. She wants to believe that "sila na" but then she's not really sure about it. "We don't talk about it but it doesn't really matter," she'd tell her friends. "What's important is I am enjoying this -- whatever it is." The "parang kayo, pero hindi" stage.
Others call it MU or mutual understanding. Pseudo-relationships. Pseudo- boyfriends. Flings. Almost like a relationship, but not quite. It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers. Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala. One or both of you may have admitted your feelings, possible ding hindi. You just let your gestures do the talking for you. Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari. Hindi kayo mag-dyowa. Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi. This kind of "relationship" can happen at different stages for different reasons. It can happen after a break-up. You still love each other, and you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason. A nd for reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan. It can also happen before a relationship, iyong pareho kayong nakikiramdam. Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya kunwa-kunwarian lang muna. Testing lang. Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo --usually the guy --may ka-relasyon na. Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon sa girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya nangagaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo." This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun. Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman ng "kalaro." Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan. So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan? Iba't ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang. Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa w ala" or puwede na iyang "pantawid-gutom." Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian. For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. It would be fun, if all you are after for is that "kilig" feeling.
Aminado naman ako na once upon a time, may mga pseudo-relationships din ako. No commitments involved. For the simplest reason that they couldn't commit, because they were either committed to someone else, or that they weren't ready to commit. My rationalization, "okay na iyun, kesa wala." Ang habol ko lang naman, iyong kilig feeling. Iyong merong nagtatanong kung kumusta araw ko. Iyong merong ka-cuddle sa beach outing. Iyong kapag tumunog ang cellphone, mapapangiti na ako dahil alam kong galing sa kanya ang message. Iyong merong laging kasama. Habang wala pa ang the real thing, puwede na itong pagtiyagaan. But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, ang babae lagi ang lugi. Una, you can't ask him to commit. Since it's not really a relationship, you can't demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? May K ka nga ba magpasundo ng hatinggabi? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. You can't expect him to be always there with you. And if you feel jealous of the other girls, you just have to keep it to yourself. Ano ka ba niya para magselos? Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him? You can't be sure if he feels the same way. Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya. Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you can't. Because you're not sure if he'll like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang. This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship. Or if there is a relationship at all. Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much? What if you have invested all your emotions and this man hasn't? What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining other guys, only to find out that he is seeing other girls? Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting. When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would be the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship. Wala kang pinanghahawakan. Kasi sa pseudo-relationship, there is no "us." Meron lang "you and me," hindi "us." Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang ang mararanasan mo. Kaso, hindi eh. Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos na ang pseudo- relationship, hindi mo maiwasan umasang one day, may karugtong pa rin iyun. And you will be miserable, hoping to bring back what you used to have, only to find out eventually that the guy is in another pseudo-relationship with somebody else. Ang h irap, ano? You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then you'd end up hurting yourself in the process. Pero puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh. Puwede naman na hindi mo muna isipin ang future and just enjoy the feeling, without thinking of the consequences. But if you are certain that you are going to hurt yourself in the process, kailangan mo mamili. You can be happy and live the moment without worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop settling with pseudo-relationships and wait for the real thing. When I was younger and in a pseudo-relationship with an unavailable guy, a friend told me, "Sige, kung ayaw mong magpapigil, bahala ka.
Magpakasaya ka. Pero huwag kang iiyak-iyak pagkatapos, dahil tatadyakan kita." Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo. Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang "parang kayo pero hindi" stage ay bihirang nagiging totoo. Usually, hanggang doon lang siya ...
almost, but not quite.
Parang Kayo, Pero Hindi. She is a 24-year old copywriter. He is an architect. They met and became lovers in college. They broke up last year but remained to be "friends." They send sweet text messages and he calls her often to make sure she's okay. They still date. They still have sex. They don't see anyone else. It is obvious that they still love each other but when asked about their situation, she doesn't know the real score. Even her friends are in the dark. "Parang sila, pero hindi."
She works in a telecom. He is reviewing for the board. They are in the same barkada. They talk on the phone till 4 am. He gives her chocolates, flowers and CDs even when there is no occasion. Their friends are suspecting something. Bakit sila nagsosolo kapag may overnight inuman? Why does he hold her close on the dance floor? Bakit sila magkaholding hands lagi? Sila kaya? "He hasn't admitted anything," she rants. "But I let him hug and kiss me. Parang kami, pero hindi."
They work together in an ad agency. After office, they would watch movie, have dinner and stroll at Glorietta. She gave him Harry Potter books for his birthday in exchange for posing as her boyfriend to make an ex jealous. They made out during the company outing in Subic and never talked about it. He said "I love you" once but she wasn't sure if she heard him correctly because they were both drunk then. But one thing she is sure of is her feelings for him. She likes him. And she's assuming that with what he's doing to her and with her, he likes her, too. There's just one hitch: he has a girlfriend!
She is a 28-year-old virgin. He's a 35-year-old bachelor. Both mountaineers, they became close during their climbs. After a few dates in posh restaurants, he brings her to his condo where they would make out. They have been doing this for months. She wants to believe that "sila na" but then she's not really sure about it. "We don't talk about it but it doesn't really matter," she'd tell her friends. "What's important is I am enjoying this -- whatever it is." The "parang kayo, pero hindi" stage.
Others call it MU or mutual understanding. Pseudo-relationships. Pseudo- boyfriends. Flings. Almost like a relationship, but not quite. It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers. Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala. One or both of you may have admitted your feelings, possible ding hindi. You just let your gestures do the talking for you. Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari. Hindi kayo mag-dyowa. Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi. This kind of "relationship" can happen at different stages for different reasons. It can happen after a break-up. You still love each other, and you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason. A nd for reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan. It can also happen before a relationship, iyong pareho kayong nakikiramdam. Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya kunwa-kunwarian lang muna. Testing lang. Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo --usually the guy --may ka-relasyon na. Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon sa girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya nangagaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo." This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun. Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman ng "kalaro." Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan. So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan? Iba't ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang. Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa w ala" or puwede na iyang "pantawid-gutom." Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian. For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. It would be fun, if all you are after for is that "kilig" feeling.
Aminado naman ako na once upon a time, may mga pseudo-relationships din ako. No commitments involved. For the simplest reason that they couldn't commit, because they were either committed to someone else, or that they weren't ready to commit. My rationalization, "okay na iyun, kesa wala." Ang habol ko lang naman, iyong kilig feeling. Iyong merong nagtatanong kung kumusta araw ko. Iyong merong ka-cuddle sa beach outing. Iyong kapag tumunog ang cellphone, mapapangiti na ako dahil alam kong galing sa kanya ang message. Iyong merong laging kasama. Habang wala pa ang the real thing, puwede na itong pagtiyagaan. But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, ang babae lagi ang lugi. Una, you can't ask him to commit. Since it's not really a relationship, you can't demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? May K ka nga ba magpasundo ng hatinggabi? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. You can't expect him to be always there with you. And if you feel jealous of the other girls, you just have to keep it to yourself. Ano ka ba niya para magselos? Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him? You can't be sure if he feels the same way. Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya. Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you can't. Because you're not sure if he'll like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang. This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship. Or if there is a relationship at all. Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much? What if you have invested all your emotions and this man hasn't? What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining other guys, only to find out that he is seeing other girls? Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting. When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would be the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship. Wala kang pinanghahawakan. Kasi sa pseudo-relationship, there is no "us." Meron lang "you and me," hindi "us." Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang ang mararanasan mo. Kaso, hindi eh. Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos na ang pseudo- relationship, hindi mo maiwasan umasang one day, may karugtong pa rin iyun. And you will be miserable, hoping to bring back what you used to have, only to find out eventually that the guy is in another pseudo-relationship with somebody else. Ang h irap, ano? You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then you'd end up hurting yourself in the process. Pero puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh. Puwede naman na hindi mo muna isipin ang future and just enjoy the feeling, without thinking of the consequences. But if you are certain that you are going to hurt yourself in the process, kailangan mo mamili. You can be happy and live the moment without worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop settling with pseudo-relationships and wait for the real thing. When I was younger and in a pseudo-relationship with an unavailable guy, a friend told me, "Sige, kung ayaw mong magpapigil, bahala ka.
Magpakasaya ka. Pero huwag kang iiyak-iyak pagkatapos, dahil tatadyakan kita." Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo. Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang "parang kayo pero hindi" stage ay bihirang nagiging totoo. Usually, hanggang doon lang siya ...
almost, but not quite.
Saturday, 2 May 2009
ayokongtaongtamad
i hate lazy people although there are times that i also feel lazy, i dont know, why cant you just put on some effort and stretch out your bones..use your brains! whats wrong with you, they were given to you so that you can use it not for display..
i hate lazy people and im confident enough that i am hardworking, i maybe sleepy..but yes im hardworking..
i hate people who passes their jobe unto others,its your responsibility! what you dont trust yourself?..
i hate those people who i need to push fisrt in order to move...arrrghh..
people..
i hate lazy people and im confident enough that i am hardworking, i maybe sleepy..but yes im hardworking..
i hate people who passes their jobe unto others,its your responsibility! what you dont trust yourself?..
i hate those people who i need to push fisrt in order to move...arrrghh..
people..
Friday, 1 May 2009
p.a.n.i.c.k.
ang swine flu na nagsimula sa mexico at kumalat sa ibat ibang parte pa ng mundo ay nasabing nasa middle east na (hindi ko alam ang source), hirap na hirap akong magtrabaho ng dahil sa araw-araw kaming naka N95 na mask (prang nokia N series lang) na may lagpas isang daang libong piraso ang binili ng kompanya para protektahan, ang mga empleyado (magandang punto) pero sa palagay ko, mauuna ko pang ikakamatay ang dahilan ng hindi maayos na paghinga dahil sa mask bago pa man mapatunayang andito na ang virus.
malungkot na kasiyahan=kabaliwan?
no man is an island, walang taong kakayaning magisa, kaya nga kailangan natin ng kasama, katawanan, kaiyakan, kahit pa sa kalokohan, kaya nga tayo nagkaroon ng kapamilya, kaibigan, kaklase, kasamahan at kahit pa simpleng kakilala lang.
hindi masaya ang maging magisa, masaya ang maraming kaibigan..KAIBIGAN, hindi ka-ibigan, pero natural lang na kasama din yan sa kasiyahan ng isang tao sa mundo. pero nakakalungkot isipin na sa lahat ng klase ng relasyong meron sa mundo, lahat may sari-sariling pagsubok, may mga nareresolbang nakakapagpatibay ng relasyon at meron din namang sa kasamaang palad ay natanim na at hindi na nagawan ng paraan at nakuha sa maayos na usapan.
nakakapanghinayang.
hindi masaya ang maging magisa, masaya ang maraming kaibigan..KAIBIGAN, hindi ka-ibigan, pero natural lang na kasama din yan sa kasiyahan ng isang tao sa mundo. pero nakakalungkot isipin na sa lahat ng klase ng relasyong meron sa mundo, lahat may sari-sariling pagsubok, may mga nareresolbang nakakapagpatibay ng relasyon at meron din namang sa kasamaang palad ay natanim na at hindi na nagawan ng paraan at nakuha sa maayos na usapan.
nakakapanghinayang.
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